ʻO ka mea kūponoʻole i nā mea kālepaʻoihana no ka mea i kapaʻia he "hahai i ka mākaʻi". Ke hanaʻia nei ma muli o keʻano o nā kumu, e like me: ka manaʻoʻole, nā manaʻo, ka hanaʻole a me ka ho'āʻo nui e hoʻoikaika i ka waiwai mai ke kūleʻa mai, mai kahi moʻokōki i kūponoʻole. ʻO ka hahaiʻana i ka mākeke he hana ia i nā mea kūʻai wale no nā mea kūʻai, no laila e hoʻoponopono kokeʻia ka'ōnaehana.

Hōʻike ka hōʻikeʻike hōʻoiaʻaʻole mākou eʻike pono i ko mākou kūlana. Ma kahi a mākou e koho i kaʻikepili iʻikeʻia e mākou (i nā'ōlelo maʻalahi) i ka maikaʻi, no ka mea, hōʻoia kēia i kā mākou mau manaʻo kūʻokoʻa a hōʻoia i ko mākou mau hewa. Me ka hōʻoia hōʻoia, aʻo ia hoʻi i kapaʻia he "hōʻailona hōʻoia", aiʻole "ma kaʻaoʻaoʻaoʻao", eʻimi, unuhi, mahalo, a hoʻomanaʻo i nāʻike e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ko mākou mau manaʻo a me ko lākou mau manaʻo. Ma nāʻano he nui a me nā kūlana, hoʻokuʻu mākou i nā hōʻike a pau, makemake mākou e hilinai i kā mākou hunch, ma waho o kaʻikepili paʻakikī.

ʻO kaʻoihana kūʻaiʻoihanaʻoihana a me kānaʻoihana. I loko o kā mākouʻoihana hana mākou i nā manawa a pau e pili ana i nā hapa iki a me nā helu. Aʻo ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana, ma waena o ka lanakila a me ke kālaiʻole, ma kā mākouʻoihana kālepaʻoihana, hiki keʻona iki.

ʻO ke aʻoʻana i kaʻaeʻana i nā pohō ka mea kānaluaʻole kekahi o nā pahuhopu nui loa a kākou e hoʻokūkū nei e like me nā mea kālepa. Hiki ke hala i ka wā e kālepaʻana aʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe o ko mākou ola e pono ai mākou e hoʻolālā i kahi papahana, e pili ana i ka nalowale o ka hana ma keʻano he māhele o ka hana. Ma kekahi mauʻano, ke kono nei mākou i ka paʻakole i loko o ko mākou olaʻana i ka wā e kūʻai ai mākou, nā ala a me nā mea kū'ēʻole i nā mea a pau i aʻoʻia ai i ko mākou mau makahiki'ōpiopio.