Ochita malonda ambiri omwe amachititsa zolakwika ndizo "kuthamangitsa msika". Chodabwitsachi chikuchitika chifukwa cha kuphatikizapo zinthu monga: kusaleza mtima, kukhudzidwa, kusadziŵa zambiri ndipo pamapeto pake ndikuyesera kukakamiza phindu kuchoka pamsika, makamaka kuchokera ku nkhani yomwe ili yovuta kwambiri. Kuthamangitsa msika ndi chizolowezi chochitidwa ndi amalonda okha, kotero kudzipanga kumangosintha nthawi yomweyo.

Chiwonetsero cha chitsimikizo chimasonyeza kuti sitimadziwa bwinobwino zomwe zilipo. M'malo mwake timasankha deta yomwe (mwachidule) imatipangitsa ife kumverera bwino, chifukwa imatsimikizira zomwe timaganiza kale ndipo zimatsimikizira tsankho lathu. Ndi chitsimikiziro chotsimikizirika, chomwe chimatchedwanso "chisokonezo chovomerezeka," kapena "zotsutsana nane", tidzasaka, kutanthauzira, kukondweretsa, ndi kukumbukira zambiri zomwe zimatsimikizira zikhulupiliro zathu ndi ziphunzitso zathu. Muzochitika zambiri ndi zochitika zathu timatsutsanso umboni wonse, tikufuna kudalira katswiri wathu, mosiyana ndi deta yovuta.

Kugulitsa ndi bizinesi yeniyeni ndi ntchito. Mu makampani athu nthawi zonse timafunika kuthana ndi kuchuluka kwa chiwerengero ndi manambala. Ndipo kusiyana, pakati pa kupambana ndi kulephera, mu malonda athu ogulitsa malonda, akhoza kukhala ochepa kwambiri.

Kuphunzira kulandira malire mosakayikira ndi chimodzi mwa mavuto aakulu omwe timakumana nawo ngati amalonda. Zotayika zingatheke panthawi ya malonda ndipo palibe mbali ina ya miyoyo yathu imene tiyenera kupanga ndondomeko, yomwe imaphatikizapo kulephereka kwa gawo ngati mbali yofunikira. Mwanjira zina ife tikuitana kulephera mu miyoyo yathu pamene tigulitsa malonda, zomwe zimagwedeza ndikutsutsana nazo zonse zomwe taphunzitsidwa zaka zathu zoyambirira.