Iphutha elivamile labadayisi abadayisi benza lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "ukuxosha imakethe". Lesi senzakalo senziwa ngenxa yokuhlanganiswa kwezici, njengokuthi: ukungapheli, imizwelo, ukungabi nalwazi futhi ekugcineni uzama ukuphoqelela inzuzo emakethe, ngokuvamile kusuka e-akhawuntini engekho emthethweni. Ukuxosha imakethe kuwumkhuba owenziwe ngabathengisi bezincwadi kuphela, ngakho-ke ukuzenzekelayo kuzokulungisa ngokushesha.

Ukucacisa ukuqinisekiswa kusikisela ukuthi asihluleki ukubona izimo zethu ngokuqondile. Esikhundleni salokho sikhetha idatha ukuthi (ngemigomo elula) isenza sizizwe sijabule, ngoba iqinisekisa ukucabanga kwethu kuqala futhi iqinisekisa ubandlululo lwethu. Ngokwezinkolelo zokuqinisekisa, okubuye kubhekiswe ngokuthi "ukuxhaswa okuqinisekisayo", noma "ukuthanda kwami", sizosesha, sihumushe, sithande futhi sikhumbule ulwazi oluqinisekisa izinkolelo zethu nezinkolelo zethu. Ezimweni eziningi nasezimo eziningi sichitha konke ubufakazi, sikhetha ukuthembela kumzingeli wethu, ngokungafani nedatha enzima.

Ukuhweba ibhizinisi eliqondile kanye nomsebenzi. Embonini yethu kufanele sihlale sibhekene namaphesenti amancane nezinombolo. Futhi umehluko, phakathi kwempumelelo nokuhluleka, embonini yethu yokuhweba yokudayisa, ingaba encane kakhulu.

Ukufunda ukwamukela ukulahlekelwa akungabazeki ukuthi kuyinkinga enkulu esibhekene nayo njengabadayisi. Ukulahlekelwa kungase kwenzeke ngenkathi kuhweba futhi kungekho nenye isici sempilo yethu lapho kufanele senze uhlelo, okubandakanya ukuhluleka okuyingxenye njengengxenye ebalulekile yenqubo. Ngezinye izindlela simema ukwehluleka emiphakathini yethu lapho sithengisa, okuyinto ehamba ngayo futhi siyaphikisana nakho konke esikufundisayo eminyakeni yethu yokuqala yokuhlela.